10 Interview Questions You Should Never Ask (And Smarter Alternatives)

Avoid ruining your chances with the wrong questions. Discover the 10 worst questions to ask in a job interview—and what to ask instead.

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by James Mason
10 Interview Questions You Should Never Ask (And Smarter Alternatives)
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10 Interview Questions You Should Never Ask (And Smarter Alternatives)

When the interviewer asks, “Do you have any questions for us?” it’s not just a formality. The questions you ask can make or break your chances.

Research shows that nearly 50% of employers reject candidates who ask the wrong type of questions (SHRM, 2023).

To help you stand out—in the right way—here are the 10 worst questions you should never ask in a job interview, why they’re damaging, and what you can ask instead.


1. “Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Crossing into personal territory makes you look unprofessional and intrusive.
✅ Ask instead: “What qualities do your most successful employees share?”


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2. “How much will I be paid, and do I get a bonus?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Salary questions too early suggest you care more about money than the role.
✅ Ask instead: “How does the company measure success for this position?”


3. “What are my chances of being fired in the next six months?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: This signals insecurity and distrust.
✅ Ask instead: “What does a successful first six months look like here?”


4. “What qualifications do you have to do your job?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: This challenges the interviewer’s authority and is insulting.
✅ Ask instead: “How did you grow into your current role?”

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5. “Did I get the job then?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: It’s pushy and puts the interviewer on the spot.
✅ Ask instead: “What are the next steps in the hiring process?”


6. “So… what is the job role?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: If you don’t know, it shows zero preparation.
✅ Ask instead: “What would a typical day in this role look like?”


7. “Isn’t the company culture toxic?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Asking bluntly about culture makes you look bitter or suspicious.
✅ Ask instead: “How would you describe the team’s management style?”


8. “Can you repeat the same thing you already said?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Re-asking covered questions shows you weren’t listening.
✅ Ask instead: Take notes and refer back politely if clarification is needed.


9. “Can I work from home 100% even if it’s hybrid?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Ignoring the job posting requirements shows inflexibility.
✅ Ask instead: “How does the team balance remote and in-office collaboration?”


10. “Can I get an advance on my first paycheck?”

🚫 Why it’s bad: Brings up money problems before you’re even hired.
✅ Ask instead: Save financial questions until you’ve received an offer.


Final Thoughts

Your questions during an interview say as much about you as your answers. Avoiding these 10 interview-killing mistakes and replacing them with thoughtful, professional alternatives will help you stand out for the right reasons.

Remember: good candidates answer well, but great candidates ask smart questions.,

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Interview FAQ: What Not to Ask (and What to Ask Instead)

Is it okay to ask about salary in the first interview?

It’s safer to wait until later rounds or when the employer raises it. Instead ask: “How is success measured in this role?” Compensation usually follows once fit is established.

Can I ask personal questions to build rapport?

Avoid personal topics (e.g., relationship status). Build rapport with role-relevant questions like: “What traits do your top performers share?”

How do I ask about company culture without sounding negative?

Use neutral framing: “How would you describe the team’s management style and collaboration rhythms?” Avoid labels like “toxic.”

What’s a good alternative to asking “Did I get the job?”

Ask: “What are the next steps in the hiring process, and when should I expect to hear back?”

Can I request fully remote work if the posting says hybrid?

Respect the listing. Ask: “How does the team balance remote and on-site collaboration?” If you need 100% remote, clarify after an offer or apply to fully-remote roles.

What should I ask to stand out at the end of an interview?

Try impact-focused questions: “What would a great first 90 days look like?” or “What key problems will this role solve this quarter?”